Episode 6
Defining Masculinity for a Society That Decided It Doesn't Need Men with Kasim Aslam
Kasim Aslam joins the show to talk about the importance of taking responsibility for how others treat us, how being vulnerable and open can actually improve a man's emotional well-being, and the danger of blindly identifying with cultural norms.
Show notes
Kasim Aslam joins the show to talk about the importance of taking responsibility for how others treat us, how being vulnerable and open can actually improve a man's emotional well-being, and the danger of blindly identifying with cultural norms.
Kasim also shares personal stories about his struggles with violence and shame, his experiences in a men's circle, and his reflections on the role of men in society.
-[03:38] Why the way people treat you is your responsibility
- [06:13] Consequences of avoiding discomfort for too long
- [08:31] Importance of resolving issues and learning forgiveness in relationships
- [14:20] Struggles with violence and shame
- [24:06] Importance of being vulnerable and open
- [31:57] Importance of diversity in society
- [35:28] Danger of using cultural identity as a badge for group identity
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Modern Masculinity explores the real-life challenges men face today — balancing work and family, being a good husband or father, and making sense of what it means to be a man right now. Honest conversations without the extremes.